Thursday 28 June 2018

Womens voices being heard

Just been looking at my blog stats and it is amazing how Women's voices are being heard globally.  Sadly I still have not got the attention of the UK government on the need to urgently reform the DWP as women's lives are being put at risk with drops in support.  Women are left penniless by their controlling violent perpetrators it is part of the perpetrators behaviour pattern....they will financially cripple their victims as well as physically and psychologically abuse them.  The victim when she gets out has to then try to rebuild her life while going on a turbulent pathway of healing, detoxing from the ugliness of violence upon her...... For then the system to be so badly designed with policies from a previous PM David Cameron that demonises those on welfare benefits..... is shameful as the welfare benefits are there to help those that are in need and are vulnerable......I cannot seem to get Theresa May our present PM to respond to this campaign with an urgent reform of the DWP to give women a strong and stable pathway of support.... and the survivors of domestic violence needs some reparation for all the criminal abuse upon them....
She says she has put £20 million in to help women but this is NOT being felt by those on the front-line in rebuilding their lives. Women are being chased by bailiffs for said debts when it is the system that has failed her creating those debts! This is perverse given all that women have been through in their abuse. 

It is good that I have had a global response of visitors to this blog and some messages that they are shocked at the UK how I and others are being treated.... The lack of compassion for survivors and help is shameful.  To compound issues in my case (and there are other over 60s that have lost to controlling perpetrators) we that were born in the 1950s are denied our State Pension till we are 66 yet need this before to give us some financial dignity.  

The UK is my motherland and ancestral country.  My ancestors have paid tax to every King Queen and Government of this land..... everyone on this land pays tax be it from VAT to income tax.... so why is there such disarray in our system of supporting those in need?  It is bad management and very dangerous to leave women without funds to feed herself and keep up to bills to keep the phone link and have gas and electric...Women have fallen victims to controlling violent perpetrators and to keep dropping support or providing inadequate support could result in her life being lost to suicide! She has been made to feel unworthy by the manipulating perpetrator- then the system makes her feel a non person!  The drops in support also keep her tethered to the past pain and why she is in this dreadful state...To have financial dignity would give her the freedom to get all the support she needs, reconnect with her true self not the contaminated distorted self. 

Women need support to heal, detox from the ugliness of violence and helped to rebuild their lives....they may not be able to enter the job market immediately with loss of confidence and unable to cope with any work environment bullying.... She needs an overlap of support when ready to get back to work and once she has healed and is able to perform she will be one strong woman for any team, company or organisation.  
Please also take a look at the WASPI campaign as my situation is compounded by not being able to get the dignity of my State Pension too. 
I have to keep turning my pain into campaign to help all women's voices heard!
A society without compassion ceases to be a society for it is compassion that holds it together.
Turning pain into Campaign!

Reform to help women heal and rebuild.... when will we get this right and fair for women? Sign the petition it is still on the go till I get some debate for reform. Petition for Strong & Stable Pathway of Support for Survivors 
This campaign must continue till achieved it goals no matter what happens to me... I have to get a better pathway of support for women!