Sunday, 24 September 2017

Thank You

I feel I want to say thank you for all the support readers of this blog are giving me... and the response to the petition.  I am also grateful of my international friends who are supporting the cause with so much love. Men and women coming to me to say they care.   It helps me so much to neutralise the negative attempts to thwart my life rebuild and challenge the system for all women aside me and behind me and some in front of me that are still having problems. It gives hope that there is still compassion and concern out there in this world that feels crazy at the moment with conflicts, wars sparring "leaders" that cannot be called leaders while there is poverty, war and man made pain in the world.  A true leader looks after all their citizens.  

So thank you and lets keep going as John needs to present the concern to government after all the party conferences and when parliament in session.  I hope to meet with key ministers soon too. 
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Saturday, 23 September 2017

Example of how Women need more support

Just got this letter from the DWP it hurts me so much "awarded" £58.10 a week out of which the LBH will take their pound of flesh for the said council tax debts that the system as generated plus £9.50 a week for the rent cap they say is for water rates! I have electric and gas to pay and try to feed myself.  It is has been titrated to the less than £65 a MONTH I get from my NHS pension as by law the poor have to survive on £73.10 a week from this you must pay rent cap and council tax.  

Worked hard all my life and it is just I have fallen victim to criminal perpetrator that as left me penniless.  I cannot just throw on my scrubs and work shifts again in the clinical area as I need to go on a return to practice course.  I am 63yrs and cannot get my State Pension till 66yrs in 2020 if I survive that long.  

Note that my ESA on my GP assessment of me was overruled and I was commanded to look for work and sign on for JSA.  

Those of you that know me will see I have and continue to try my best to rebuild my life.  I do apply for jobs but no offers! Folk happy to take you as an unpaid volunteer but no paid post! I turn my pain into campaign and though have many readers to this blog and on my social media no one offers me some paid work, seeing my worth.  I have my personal project of trying to help the amazing Syrian refugee family to rebuild their lives..... From the lump sum of £5000 NHS pension I received last year I visited them and have learned so much.  I had hoped for funding from the EU and written for grants and funding.  I get letters to say wonderful what you doing but no funds for what you doing as  an individual carer/befriender... only funds for NGOs I try for paid posts with NGOs  even tried to join the UNHCR and applied for posts in both the UK & EU parliament.... My Syrian family project keeps me alive and we support one another emotionally and psychologically as we are all traumatised souls that have lost all and need to rebuild our lives again. 

You know dear readers of this blog .. this oppressive lack of funds from the DWP hurts so much as over the years I have paid in so much tax.  When I was in fine fettle and could work busy 12 hrs shifts and 5 of them in a row I would bring in a £1000 a week and £350 tax would be taken out and NI... it is heartbreaking that now when I need help as a survivor of domestic violence and criminal perpetrators that robbed me of all my assets and my career.... that I have come to trying to survive off £5 a day it works out at now...!! 

How also are folk supposed to look for work and have the stamina to retrain for work when they are hungry in poverty..!! 

The whole system of DWP needs review and to stop seeing folk as lazy scroungers the mentality of the Cameron and IDS days.... we need compassionate help not knocked down and pushed further and further into poverty.  

For women survivors of domestic violence it is dangerous as she could out of depression from her post traumatic stress commit suicide as she feels the system is against her and sees no value in her.  

My pain I turn into campaign for all the women aside me and behind me and those in front of me that still have left over mental and physical problems from their beatings...and struggling financially to rebuild their lives.

Bringing another case to you of a woman that has periods of mental blankness amnesia from her repeated slapping and punches to her head.  She has just had her ESA stopped and is now told to look for work.  

A society without compassion ceases to be a society!

This all is more upsetting when government are talking of Brexit Billions as if confetti to throw around... obscene when we have folk below poverty line and going hungry from their incompetent mal policies. 
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Thursday, 21 September 2017

Women to keep home

My update on the petition today.... we are still going for signatures till all the party conferences over and parliament in full swing again. 
Sorry for the delay in posting an update. I am grateful to your support on this issue and welcome the extra signatures to the petition. I am in acute Toryitis with no money now. I had a letter to say I have to find work by law now, the ESA was abruptly stopped with a final figure of £16 put in my account. I have signed on for JSA and continue to look for paid work. I keep myself busy with projects and turn PAIN into CAMPAIGN My career & life ruined by not only Amine my third husband who broke my arm and deserted me penniless but also husband number 2 Vincent that coerced me into signing over the property. A home I had worked long shifts to help pay for. He now enjoys with his second wife who is under his control by providing the children he wanted that I couldn't. I have spoken to her to be careful as I had 15 yrs with his cycles of violence towards me and I tried to understand and heal him and even got him on the DVIP charity programme. There is a huge file of his arrests and I stopped short of prosecuting as part of the delusion I was under that he would stop and get better from this violence. 

you will ask why did a graduate nurse and midwife allow her life to be ruined with violent men... The answer comes in the TED lectures Crazy Love.... google this my dear supporters and you will hear the eloquent narration of how we are woven into a tangled web of illusion by these masters of deception. 

My post today I want to challenge not only this need for a strong and stable pathway of support but women should not be sent to refuge or forced out of her home for safety. The perpetrator of the violence needs to be forced out of the home and brought to accountability of his actions, no matter how we plead against in the mind delusion we are cocooned in... these men need to be brought to justice. Simple! at some point we women have to let go of the delusion we love them and they love us and all will work out...... The toxicity of their violence has to be be broken in release from their claws of deception on us. 

A woman victim of domestic violence needs a sacred place to be to heal and detox from the ugliness of the shear evil of violence and abuse upon her. The system needs to help her keep her home be it rented or mortgaged. She should never lose her assets to these criminals that have cheated her. If taken needs some compensation for the what is fraudulent behaviour she has fallen victim too. 

We need to help her and it may be that she feel she needs to change her home to rid her of the memories, she may keep the home but need help to redecorate and change the furnishings and have a complete start. 

I had opportunity to meet with a long term friend who I have known for 22yrs now. She did not open up about her violent husband to her friends and family till some 5 years in the abuse... But I admire her as despite all her pain and the problems her child faced with the aftermath of the abuse, she managed to keep her home. I was impressed how she has "cleansed" that home of the negative vibes her husband left, she has her own stamp on the place it is an expression of her caring spirituality that she has cultivated as she moved through her healing. She has a business she is developing alongside some part time hours till her business becomes self sufficient...... the beauty is she helps other women on their healing pathway now... 

Please dear supporters we need to ensure there is support in society for women as they rebuild their lives......

I am in great pain coming to 63yrs having lost so much of my life to violent control of my life. I was a teenage mum to a good husband then and married for 25yrs but we lost all in the 1989/1990 recession. that broke us... Crazy in that time I was a mother and studying at night school. 7 O levels and 2 A levels SEN RN RM BSc Nursing... worked in top teaching hospitals and could have been and should have been a woman of substance with assets and house paid for.. mortgage complete. But here I am 63 yrs with no savings no assets unable to get my State Pension as 1954 baby... completely reliant on the benefits that I have paid tax into over the years.... yet treated like I am a Zero person by an uncaring government..

I still ask you where is the £20million that our PM says she has put into helping women DV victims? 

It is nauseating when now with all this Brexit melarky there is talk of £billions being banned about when you are sat hungry, Mouth sore with scurvy lack of vit C and being pounded by bills you cannot pay as now money to pay with. 

Women need financial dignity to help heal and rebuild... as they have had their lives steam rolled with violent criminal partners.

I expose my story but my story is one of 10,000s of women victims... 

Help us to heal and rebuild please and most of all be able to move on from the pain......
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Monday, 18 September 2017

Rethinking Poverty – What Makes a Good Society?' The Webb Memorial Trust

Benefits no longer Benefits

Benefits no longer Benefits 
but being used as a weapon by Tory government!
Ashamed of my country the UK is YUCK the way it is treating the sick, the vulnerable and the elderly. Spoke to a woman in her 50s today that looks in her 70s drawn and aged with chronic back pain and needs to walk with crutches... been watching her for months getting worse... she has been told by DWP she MUST FIND WORK and all her benefits have been abruptly stopped. She admitted she tried to commit suicide with the letter as she feels her pain and suffering is negated. Her husband stopped her in time... Of course those in chronic pain have strong analgesia tabs to easily take an overdose to suicide..... Morphine is respiratory depressant......... I told her do not give this uncaring government the power by doing this.... you have as much right as anyone else to live on this earth and we should be caring for you. I used to feel proud of paying my taxes all now of 48yrs working life to help provide services to those in need and be there for my need too.... but this government is taking our money and doing fanny all with it to help others in need...... they need to be taken to court on corruption and failed state duty of care....!! you see we are all taxpayers and we have our rights to have the services we are paying for....!! Shameful... ! and to think Mrs May suddenly found £billion to bribe her way into keeping power with the DUP .. Illegal all round as they Irish parliament is in disarray...!! what happened to "mon dieu et mon droit"
Union Jack for me half mast as we have lost Compassion and our society is dead...!! for a society without compassion ceases to be a society.....
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Friday, 15 September 2017

GP review today

Love this artwork in my GP surgery - what a lovely idea to use local school art to beautify the waiting area.... 
I have had two appointments to attend this week one yesterday for my practice nurse BP check as I am tittering on borderline for medication to control. It is not surprising my BP high with all the stress I have to cope with from the DWP - yes the system creating stress.  Then I had a review today with my GP in both consultations there were students one a new medical student and another a return to practice GP trainee.   They were fascinated by my story and how I turn my pain into campaign!! They were baffled at first of the new syndrome I have identified called Toryitis and was saying what is this.. lol ... I told them this is politically induced austerity pushing folk into poverty with hunger and vitamin deficiencies reappearing last seen in the last early century.  It is also linked with depression and emotional and social stress and pain.  Oh they took this on board and were smiling yes you right Mrs Bahhaj - I prefer to be called Marjorie I say.  I then tell them I am Marjorie in Michael Wynne's play Who Cares.. where much of my authentic dialogue was used on my experience of the NHS.

It was good to tell them I am now involved in the APPG Poverty group and TAP - Tax payers against Poverty.  I told the staff you know you can come to these meetings in parliament  -we would welcome your medical input too.  The young medical student was fascinated and enlightened so will tell his classmates at the Imperial College.

Now the update on this posting is that I received a letter from the DWP well had 7 all together this week with this one I am going to tell you about. 

The letter was to say my ESA was closed despite my sick note stating depression from post traumatic stress and my file stating I am a domestic violence survivor... The independent work capability states I am fit for work and must look for work.  I am 63yrs born in 1954 and am forbidden my state pension till 2020... I have been looking for paid posts and looking for funding for all I do in domestic and international issues. 

Anyway I signed on for JSA on Wednesday and the clerk asked how much work experience have you had - my answer was 48 years with tax payment as when I work it out my first job was as an office junior in November 1969 at 15yrs old. She paused and looked actually in extreme repetition injury pain from her shoulder and said crazy... I told her you will have to hack it through till you are 70yrs as there is a bill going through with 70yrs being the target retirement age!!

All is good I am now registered on the jobmatch website and filled it with 2 pages of notes on what I have been doing the courses I am on and my actions to find funding and work.  I have put in a couple of applications for work in the paid charity sector. 

My course is the one I posted about in this blog the coursera.org Womens health and International Rights... I have completed week one and just about to complete week 2 input.   There is a course to come in February in Parliament that I have registered for on the futurelearn site https://www.futurelearn.com/partners/houses-of-parliament

BEYOND THE BALLOT: WOMEN’S RIGHTS AND SUFFRAGE FROM 1866 TO TODAY

I am also Studying for my TEFL certificate on line too and enjoying this. of course I still help to befriend my Syrian refugee family.  All I need is financial dignity and none of this below poverty existence.  It is actually quite amazing I do all that I do... and sometimes hungry.....The strong and stable pathway of support needs to recognise when women are trying their best to rebuild and to not lay down and die with the pain but trying and trying to rebuild life.   I feel women do need continuity of that support so financial help to rebuild with this heal and detox from the ugliness of violence upon her.. She needs an overlap of support when she does find work or able to return to work, she needs to be sure she can cope with the work demands on her. Generally per se the DWP needs to help those that are doing voluntary work.... extra benefit payments to reward... and never ever stop benefits leaving anyone in need with NO MONEY... that is not acceptable..... even if "overpaid" in benefits this will come back over time from earnings when folk are able to work.... it is perverse to have folk struggling on less that £10 a day and needing foodbanks... it is not noble and Christianly uplifting as one rather wealthy MP stated .. it is shameful and poverty is diagnostic of FAILED GOVERNMENTS and is not representative of Christianity or any world religions for the core of all is to be selfless merciful and caring for all creation to love and respect one another. This is the strength that a society can be founded on Compassion! 
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Wednesday, 6 September 2017

Voice heard with Children

14:00-15:00 – Screening of documentary15:00-16:00 – Panel discussion followed by Q&AThis screening and discussion is a follow-up to a meeting the All Party Parliamentary Group (APPG) on Poverty held in January 2017 with the End Child Poverty coalition, launching their ‘Feeling the Pinch’ report on the impact of rising prices and reducing family incomes. 10 year-old Kelly Louise, spoke movingly at the APPG meeting about the impact of precarious housing on her and her family. Footage of the meeting features in Professor Green’s new documentary.
Attended this meeting today in Parliament and it was heartbreaking to hear the growing poverty among families as the DWP fails those in need.  I was able to get women's voices heard in the shared question and discussion time.  It is necessary to ensure that women do have a strong and stable pathway of support as domestic violence survivors, many have children and are desperately trying to hold their family together.  
I do worry that women should not be so readily encouraged to leave their homes for a refuge it must be the perpetrator that is forced to leave so she continues to have shelter and this may be an invested shelter if the place is mortgaged. The perpetrator will as part of his behaviour financially cripple his victim or swindle her out of her share of assets.  But regardless of whether women are in a mortgaged property or private or council rented place she has to have ....simply has to have financial support to keep her safe in her home to be able to heal and detox from her violence.  Of course it is an added stressor that she will have continued contact with the perpetrator if he is not imprisoned as he has contact rights to his children. Support has to be maximised as a community and state duty of care, not falling foul in badly written policies that keep failing people in need of our support. 

The children from this film insight desperately need stability in the rough sea of despair they are in and witnessing and suffering.  There needs to no evictions to ensure that school and friends are there as a constant anchor to hope and building for the future. 

I warmly welcomed in the film footage that a eloquent and brave little girl had been invited to parliament to share her story of what it is like to live in poverty. The overall point that was apparent is that children can feel powerless and in pain with the frustration of being tied down in poverty.  They have dreams and aspirations.... I felt that it would be good to have  Youth Parliamentary group to help empower and get voices heard NOW for their FUTURE. Where there is poverty to my reckoning it is diagnostic of failed leaders and failed policies... the shame should not be in the poor but in the politics that create and perpetuate poverty for those in need of support and care in vulnerable and difficult circumstances.
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Monday, 4 September 2017

Ancient civilisation and Women

source: http://www.ancient.eu/article/623/
One of the central values of ancient Egyptian civilization, arguably the central value, was ma'at - the concept of harmony and balance in all aspects of one's life. This ideal was the most important duty observed by the pharaoh who, as mediator between the gods and the people, was supposed to be a role model for how one lived a balanced life. Egyptian art, architecture, religious practices, even governmental agencies all exhibit a perfect symmetry of balance and this can also be seen in gender roles throughout the history of ancient Egyptian civilization.Egyptian Royal Woman
Women in ancient Egypt were the equals of men in every area except occupations. Historians Bob Brier and Hoyt Hobbs note how women were equal to men in almost every area except for jobs: "Men fought, ran the government, and managed the farm; women cooked, sewed, and managed the house" (89). Men held positions of authority such as king, governor, general, and a man was considered the head of the household but, within that patriarchy, women exercised considerable power and independence. Egyptologist Barbara Watterson writes:

In ancient Egypt a woman enjoyed the same rights under the law as a man. What her de jure [rightful entitlement] rights were depended upon her social class not her sex. All landed property descended in the female line, from mother to daughter, on the assumption, perhaps, that maternity is a matter of fact, paternity a matter of opinion. A woman was entitled to administer her own property and dispose of it as she wished. She could buy, sell, be a partner in legal contracts, be executor in wills and witness to legal documents, bring an action at court, and adopt children in her own name. An ancient Egyptian woman was legally capax [competent, capable]. In contrast, an ancient Greek woman was supervised by a kyrios [male guardian] and many Greek women who lived in Egypt during the Ptolemaic Period, observing Egyptian women acting without kyrioi, were encouraged to do so themselves. In short, an ancient Egyptian woman enjoyed greater social standing than many women of other societies, both ancient and modern. (16)
The respect accorded to women in ancient Egypt is evident in almost every aspect of the civilization from the religious beliefs to social customs. The gods were both male and female, and each had their own equally important areas of expertise. Women could marry who they wanted and divorce those who no longer suited them, could hold what jobs they liked - within limits - and travel at their whim. The earliest creation myths of the culture all emphasize, to greater or lesser degrees, the value of the feminine principle.

THE DIVINE FEMININE

In the most popular creation myth, the god Atum lights upon the primordial mound in the midst of the swirling waters of chaos and sets about creating the world. In some versions of this tale, however, it is the goddess Neith who brings creation and, even where Atum is the central character, the primordial waters are personified as Nu and Naunet, a balance of the male and female principles in harmony which combine for the creative act.

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Beijing UN report 1996 Actions

D. Violence against women 
112. Violence against women is an obstacle to the achievement of the objectives of equality, development and peace. Violence against women both violates and impairs or nullifies the enjoyment by women of their human rights and fundamental freedoms. The long-standing failure to protect and promote those rights and freedoms in the case of violence against women is a matter of concern to all States and should be addressed. Knowledge about its causes and consequences, as well as its incidence and measures to combat it, have been greatly expanded since the Nairobi Conference. In all societies, to a greater or lesser degree, women and girls are subjected to physical, sexual and psychological abuse that cuts across lines of income, class and culture. The low social and economic status of women can be both a cause and a consequence of violence against women. 

113. The term "violence against women" means any act of gender-based violence that results in, or is likely to result in, physical, sexual or psychological harm or suffering to women, including threats of such acts, coercion or arbitrary deprivation of liberty, whether occurring in public or private life. Accordingly, violence against women encompasses but is not limited to the following: (a) Physical, sexual and psychological violence occurring in the family, including battering, sexual abuse of female children in the household, dowry-related violence, marital rape, female genital mutilation and other traditional practices harmful to women, non-spousal violence and violence related to exploitation; -48- (b) Physical, sexual and psychological violence occurring within the general community, including rape, sexual abuse, sexual harassment and intimidation at work, in educational institutions and elsewhere, trafficking in women and forced prostitution; (c) Physical, sexual and psychological violence perpetrated or condoned by the State, wherever it occurs. 

114. Other acts of violence against women include violation of the human rights of women in situations of armed conflict, in particular murder, systematic rape, sexual slavery and forced pregnancy. 

115. Acts of violence against women also include forced sterilization and forced abortion, coercive/forced use of contraceptives, female infanticide and prenatal sex selection. 

116. Some groups of women, such as women belonging to minority groups, indigenous women, refugee women, women migrants, including women migrant workers, women in poverty living in rural or remote communities, destitute women, women in institutions or in detention, female children, women with disabilities, elderly women, displaced women, repatriated women, women living in poverty and women in situations of armed conflict, foreign occupation, wars of aggression, civil wars, terrorism, including hostage-taking, are also particularly vulnerable to violence. 

117. Acts or threats of violence, whether occurring within the home or in the community, or perpetrated or condoned by the State, instil fear and insecurity in women’s lives and are obstacles to the achievement of equality and for development and peace. The fear of violence, including harassment, is a permanent constraint on the mobility of women and limits their access to resources and basic activities. High social, health and economic costs to the individual and society are associated with violence against women. Violence against women is one of the crucial social mechanisms by which women are forced into a subordinate position compared with men. In many cases, violence against women and girls occurs in the family or within the home, where violence is often tolerated. The neglect, physical and sexual abuse, and rape of girl children and women by family members and other members of the household, as well as incidences of spousal and non-spousal abuse, often go unreported and are thus difficult to detect. Even when such violence is reported, there is often a failure to protect victims or punish perpetrators. 

118. Violence against women is a manifestation of the historically unequal power relations between men and women, which have led to domination over and discrimination against women by men and to the prevention of women’s full advancement. Violence against women throughout the life cycle derives essentially from cultural patterns, in particular the harmful effects of certain traditional or customary practices and all acts of extremism linked to race, sex, language or religion that perpetuate the lower status accorded to women in the family, the workplace, the community and society. Violence against women is exacerbated by social pressures, notably the shame of denouncing certain acts that have been perpetrated against women; women’s lack of access to legal information, aid or protection; the lack of laws that effectively prohibit violence against women; failure to reform existing laws; inadequate efforts on the part of public authorities to promote awareness of and enforce existing laws; and the absence of educational and other means to address the causes and consequences of violence. Images in the media of violence against women, in particular those that depict rape or sexual slavery as well as the use of women -49- and girls as sex objects, including pornography, are factors contributing to the continued prevalence of such violence, adversely influencing the community at large, in particular children and young people. 

119. Developing a holistic and multidisciplinary approach to the challenging task of promoting families, communities and States that are free of violence against women is necessary and achievable. Equality, partnership between women and men and respect for human dignity must permeate all stages of the socialization process. Educational systems should promote self-respect, mutual respect, and cooperation between women and men. 

120. The absence of adequate gender-disaggregated data and statistics on the incidence of violence makes the elaboration of programmes and monitoring of changes difficult. Lack of or inadequate documentation and research on domestic violence, sexual harassment and violence against women and girls in private and in public, including the workplace, impede efforts to design specific intervention strategies. Experience in a number of countries shows that women and men can be mobilized to overcome violence in all its forms and that effective public measures can be taken to address both the causes and the consequences of violence. Men’s groups mobilizing against gender violence are necessary allies for change. 

121. Women may be vulnerable to violence perpetrated by persons in positions of authority in both conflict and non-conflict situations. Training of all officials in humanitarian and human rights law and the punishment of perpetrators of violent acts against women would help to ensure that such violence does not take place at the hands of public officials in whom women should be able to place trust, including police and prison officials and security forces. 

122. The effective suppression of trafficking in women and girls for the sex trade is a matter of pressing international concern. Implementation of the 1949 Convention for the Suppression of the Traffic in Persons and of the Exploitation of the Prostitution of Others, 20/ as well as other relevant instruments, needs to be reviewed and strengthened. The use of women in international prostitution and trafficking networks has become a major focus of international organized crime. The Special Rapporteur of the Commission on Human Rights on violence against women, who has explored these acts as an additional cause of the violation of the human rights and fundamental freedoms of women and girls, is invited to address, within her mandate and as a matter of urgency, the issue of international trafficking for the purposes of the sex trade, as well as the issues of forced prostitution, rape, sexual abuse and sex tourism. Women and girls who are victims of this international trade are at an increased risk of further violence, as well as unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted infection, including infection with HIV/AIDS. 

123. In addressing violence against women, Governments and other actors should promote an active and visible policy of mainstreaming a gender perspective in all policies and programmes so that before decisions are taken an analysis may be made of their effects on women and men, respectively. -50- Strategic objective D.1. Take integrated measures to prevent and eliminate violence against women Actions to be taken 

124. By Governments: (a) Condemn violence against women and refrain from invoking any custom, tradition or religious consideration to avoid their obligations with respect to its elimination as set out in the Declaration on the Elimination of Violence against Women; (b) Refrain from engaging in violence against women and exercise due diligence to prevent, investigate and, in accordance with national legislation, punish acts of violence against women, whether those acts are perpetrated by the State or by private persons; (c) Enact and/or reinforce penal, civil, labour and administrative sanctions in domestic legislation to punish and redress the wrongs done to women and girls who are subjected to any form of violence, whether in the home, the workplace, the community or society; (d) Adopt and/or implement and periodically review and analyse legislation to ensure its effectiveness in eliminating violence against women, emphasizing the prevention of violence and the prosecution of offenders; take measures to ensure the protection of women subjected to violence, access to just and effective remedies, including compensation and indemnification and healing of victims, and rehabilitation of perpetrators; (e) Work actively to ratify and/or implement international human rights norms and instruments as they relate to violence against women, including those contained in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, 21/ the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights, 13/ the International Covenant on Economic, Social and Cultural Rights, 13/ and the Convention against Torture and Other Cruel, Inhuman or Degrading Treatment or Punishment; 22/ (f) Implement the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women, taking into account general recommendation 19, adopted by the Committee on the Elimination of Discrimination against Women at its eleventh session; 23/ (g) Promote an active and visible policy of mainstreaming a gender perspective in all policies and programmes related to violence against women; actively encourage, support and implement measures and programmes aimed at increasing the knowledge and understanding of the causes, consequences and mechanisms of violence against women among those responsible for implementing these policies, such as law enforcement officers, police personnel and judicial, medical and social workers, as well as those who deal with minority, migration and refugee issues, and develop strategies to ensure that the revictimization of women victims of violence does not occur because of gender-insensitive laws or judicial or enforcement practices; (h) Provide women who are subjected to violence with access to the mechanisms of justice and, as provided for by national legislation, to -51- just and effective remedies for the harm they have suffered and inform women of their rights in seeking redress through such mechanisms; (i) Enact and enforce legislation against the perpetrators of practices and acts of violence against women, such as female genital mutilation, female infanticide, prenatal sex selection and dowry-related violence, and give vigorous support to the efforts of non-governmental and community organizations to eliminate such practices; (j) Formulate and implement, at all appropriate levels, plans of action to eliminate violence against women; (k) Adopt all appropriate measures, especially in the field of education, to modify the social and cultural patterns of conduct of men and women, and to eliminate prejudices, customary practices and all other practices based on the idea of the inferiority or superiority of either of the sexes and on stereotyped roles for men and women; (l) Create or strengthen institutional mechanisms so that women and girls can report acts of violence against them in a safe and confidential environment, free from the fear of penalties or retaliation, and file charges; (m) Ensure that women with disabilities have access to information and services in the field of violence against women; (n) Create, improve or develop as appropriate, and fund the training programmes for judicial, legal, medical, social, educational and police and immigrant personnel, in order to avoid the abuse of power leading to violence against women and sensitize such personnel to the nature of gender-based acts and threats of violence so that fair treatment of female victims can be assured; (o) Adopt laws, where necessary, and reinforce existing laws that punish police, security forces or any other agents of the State who engage in acts of violence against women in the course of the performance of their duties; review existing legislation and take effective measures against the perpetrators of such violence; (p) Allocate adequate resources within the government budget and mobilize community resources for activities related to the elimination of violence against women, including resources for the implementation of plans of action at all appropriate levels; (q) Include in reports submitted in accordance with the provisions of relevant United Nations human rights instruments, information pertaining to violence against women and measures taken to implement the Declaration on the Elimination of Violence against Women; (r) Cooperate with and assist the Special Rapporteur of the Commission on Human Rights on violence against women in the performance of her mandate and furnish all information requested; cooperate also with other competent mechanisms, such as the Special Rapporteur of the Commission on Human Rights on torture and the Special Rapporteur of the Commission on Human Rights on summary, extrajudiciary and arbitrary executions, in relation to violence against women; -52- (s) Recommend that the Commission on Human Rights renew the mandate of the Special Rapporteur on violence against women when her term ends in 1997 and, if warranted, to update and strengthen it. 

125. By Governments, including local governments, community organizations, non-governmental organizations, educational institutions, the public and private sectors, particularly enterprises, and the mass media, as appropriate: (a) Provide well-funded shelters and relief support for girls and women subjected to violence, as well as medical, psychological and other counselling services and free or low-cost legal aid, where it is needed, as well as appropriate assistance to enable them to find a means of subsistence; (b) Establish linguistically and culturally accessible services for migrant women and girls, including women migrant workers, who are victims of gender-based violence; (c) Recognize the vulnerability to violence and other forms of abuse of women migrants, including women migrant workers, whose legal status in the host country depends on employers who may exploit their situation; (d) Support initiatives of women’s organizations and non-governmental organizations all over the world to raise awareness on the issue of violence against women and to contribute to its elimination; (e) Organize, support and fund community-based education and training campaigns to raise awareness about violence against women as a violation of women’s enjoyment of their human rights and mobilize local communities to use appropriate gender-sensitive traditional and innovative methods of conflict resolution; (f) Recognize, support and promote the fundamental role of intermediate institutions, such as primary health-care centres, family-planning centres, existing school health services, mother and baby protection services, centres for migrant families and so forth in the field of information and education related to abuse; (g) Organize and fund information campaigns and educational and training programmes in order to sensitize girls and boys and women and men to the personal and social detrimental effects of violence in the family, community and society; teach them how to communicate without violence and promote training for victims and potential victims so that they can protect themselves and others against such violence; (h) Disseminate information on the assistance available to women and families who are victims of violence; (i) Provide, fund and encourage counselling and rehabilitation programmes for the perpetrators of violence and promote research to further efforts concerning such counselling and rehabilitation so as to prevent the recurrence of such violence; (j) Raise awareness of the responsibility of the media in promoting non-stereotyped images of women and men, as well as in eliminating patterns of media presentation that generate violence, and encourage those responsible for media content to establish professional -53- guidelines and codes of conduct; also raise awareness of the important role of the media in informing and educating people about the causes and effects of violence against women and in stimulating public debate on the topic. 

126. By Governments, employers, trade unions, community and youth organizations and non-governmental organizations, as appropriate: (a) Develop programmes and procedures to eliminate sexual harassment and other forms of violence against women in all educational institutions, workplaces and elsewhere; (b) Develop programmes and procedures to educate and raise awareness of acts of violence against women that constitute a crime and a violation of the human rights of women; (c) Develop counselling, healing and support programmes for girls, adolescents and young women who have been or are involved in abusive relationships, particularly those who live in homes or institutions where abuse occurs; (d) Take special measures to eliminate violence against women, particularly those in vulnerable situations, such as young women, refugee, displaced and internally displaced women, women with disabilities and women migrant workers, including enforcing any existing legislation and developing, as appropriate, new legislation for women migrant workers in both sending and receiving countries. 

127. By the Secretary-General of the United Nations: Provide the Special Rapporteur of the Commission on Human Rights on violence against women with all necessary assistance, in particular the staff and resources required to perform all mandated functions, especially in carrying out and following up on missions undertaken either separately or jointly with other special rapporteurs and working groups, and adequate assistance for periodic consultations with the Committee on the Elimination of Discrimination against Women and all treaty bodies. 

128. By Governments, international organizations and non-governmental organizations: Encourage the dissemination and implementation of the UNHCR Guidelines on the Protection of Refugee Women and the UNHCR Guidelines on the Prevention of and Response to Sexual Violence against Refugees. Strategic objective D.2. Study the causes and consequences of violence against women and the effectiveness of preventive measures Actions to be taken 129. By Governments, regional organizations, the United Nations, other international organizations, research institutions, women’s and youth organizations and non-governmental organizations, as appropriate: -54- (a) Promote research, collect data and compile statistics, especially concerning domestic violence relating to the prevalence of different forms of violence against women, and encourage research into the causes, nature, seriousness and consequences of violence against women and the effectiveness of measures implemented to prevent and redress violence against women; (b) Disseminate findings of research and studies widely; (c) Support and initiate research on the impact of violence, such as rape, on women and girl children, and make the resulting information and statistics available to the public; (d) Encourage the media to examine the impact of gender role stereotypes, including those perpetuated by commercial advertisements which foster gender-based violence and inequalities, and how they are transmitted during the life cycle, and take measures to eliminate these negative images with a view to promoting a violence-free society.

Source: http://www.un.org/womenwatch/daw/beijing/pdf/Beijing%20full%20report%20E.pdf

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Fourth Women's conference declaration of rights

Beijing Declaration 1995
1. We, the Governments participating in the Fourth World Conference on Women, 2. Gathered here in Beijing in September 1995, the year of the fiftieth anniversary of the founding of the United Nations, 

3. Determined to advance the goals of equality, development and peace for all women everywhere in the interest of all humanity, 

4. Acknowledging the voices of all women everywhere and taking note of the diversity of women and their roles and circumstances, honouring the women who paved the way and inspired by the hope present in the world’s youth, 

5. Recognize that the status of women has advanced in some important respects in the past decade but that progress has been uneven, inequalities between women and men have persisted and major obstacles remain, with serious consequences for the well-being of all people, 

6. Also recognize that this situation is exacerbated by the increasing poverty that is affecting the lives of the majority of the world’s people, in particular women and children, with origins in both the national and international domains, 

7. Dedicate ourselves unreservedly to addressing these constraints and obstacles and thus enhancing further the advancement and empowerment of women all over the world, and agree that this requires urgent action in the spirit of determination, hope, cooperation and solidarity, now and to carry us forward into the next century. We reaffirm our commitment to: 

8. The equal rights and inherent human dignity of women and men and other purposes and principles enshrined in the Charter of the United Nations, to the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and other international human rights instruments, in particular the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women and the Convention on the Rights of the Child, as well as the Declaration on the Elimination of Violence against Women and the Declaration on the Right to Development; 

9. Ensure the full implementation of the human rights of women and of the girl child as an inalienable, integral and indivisible part of all human rights and fundamental freedoms; 

10. Build on consensus and progress made at previous United Nations conferences and summits - on women in Nairobi in 1985, on children in New York in 1990, on environment and development in Rio de Janeiro in 1992, on human rights in Vienna in 1993, on population and development in Cairo in 1994 and on social development in Copenhagen in 1995 with the objective of achieving equality, development and peace; 

11. Achieve the full and effective implementation of the Nairobi Forward looking Strategies for the Advancement of Women; -2- 12. The empowerment and advancement of women, including the right to freedom of thought, conscience, religion and belief, thus contributing to the moral, ethical, spiritual and intellectual needs of women and men, individually or in community with others and thereby guaranteeing them the possibility of realizing their full potential in society and shaping their lives in accordance with their own aspirations. We are convinced that: 

13. Women’s empowerment and their full participation on the basis of equality in all spheres of society, including participation in the decision-making process and access to power, are fundamental for the achievement of equality, development and peace; 

14. Women’s rights are human rights; 

15. Equal rights, opportunities and access to resources, equal sharing of responsibilities for the family by men and women, and a harmonious partnership between them are critical to their well-being and that of their families as well as to the consolidation of democracy; 

16. Eradication of poverty based on sustained economic growth, social development, environmental protection and social justice requires the involvement of women in economic and social development, equal opportunities and the full and equal participation of women and men as agents and beneficiaries of people-centred sustainable development; 

17. The explicit recognition and reaffirmation of the right of all women to control all aspects of their health, in particular their own fertility, is basic to their empowerment; 

18. Local, national, regional and global peace is attainable and is inextricably linked with the advancement of women, who are a fundamental force for leadership, conflict resolution and the promotion of lasting peace at all levels; 

19. It is essential to design, implement and monitor, with the full participation of women, effective, efficient and mutually reinforcing gender-sensitive policies and programmes, including development policies and programmes, at all levels that will foster the empowerment and advancement of women; 

20. The participation and contribution of all actors of civil society, particularly women’s groups and networks and other non-governmental organizations and community-based organizations, with full respect for their autonomy, in cooperation with Governments, are important to the effective implementation and follow-up of the Platform for Action; 

21. The implementation of the Platform for Action requires commitment from Governments and the international community. By making national and international commitments for action, including those made at the Conference, Governments and the international community recognize the need to take priority action for the empowerment and advancement of women. -3- We are determined to: 

22. Intensify efforts and actions to achieve the goals of the Nairobi Forward looking Strategies for the Advancement of Women by the end of this century; 

23. Ensure the full enjoyment by women and the girl child of all human rights and fundamental freedoms and take effective action against violations of these rights and freedoms; 

24. Take all necessary measures to eliminate all forms of discrimination against women and the girl child and remove all obstacles to gender equality and the advancement and empowerment of women; 

25. Encourage men to participate fully in all actions towards equality; 

26. Promote women’s economic independence, including employment, and eradicate the persistent and increasing burden of poverty on women by addressing the structural causes of poverty through changes in economic structures, ensuring equal access for all women, including those in rural areas, as vital development agents, to productive resources, opportunities and public services; 

27. Promote people-centred sustainable development, including sustained economic growth, through the provision of basic education, life-long education, literacy and training, and primary health care for girls and women; 

28. Take positive steps to ensure peace for the advancement of women and, recognizing the leading role that women have played in the peace movement, work actively towards general and complete disarmament under strict and effective international control, and support negotiations on the conclusion, without delay, of a universal and multilaterally and effectively verifiable comprehensive nuclear-test-ban treaty which contributes to nuclear disarmament and the prevention of the proliferation of nuclear weapons in all its aspects; 

29. Prevent and eliminate all forms of violence against women and girls; 

30. Ensure equal access to and equal treatment of women and men in education and health care and enhance women’s sexual and reproductive health as well as education; 

31. Promote and protect all human rights of women and girls; 

32. Intensify efforts to ensure equal enjoyment of all human rights and fundamental freedoms for all women and girls who face multiple barriers to their empowerment and advancement because of such factors as their race, age, language, ethnicity, culture, religion, or disability, or because they are indigenous people; 

33. Ensure respect for international law, including humanitarian law, in order to protect women and girls in particular; 

34. Develop the fullest potential of girls and women of all ages, ensure their full and equal participation in building a better world for all and enhance their role in the development process. -4- We are determined to: 

35. Ensure women’s equal access to economic resources, including land, credit, science and technology, vocational training, information, communication and markets, as a means to further the advancement and empowerment of women and girls, including through the enhancement of their capacities to enjoy the benefits of equal access to these resources, inter alia, by means of international cooperation; 

36. Ensure the success of the Platform for Action, which will require a strong commitment on the part of Governments, international organizations and institutions at all levels. We are deeply convinced that economic development, social development and environmental protection are interdependent and mutually reinforcing components of sustainable development, which is the framework for our efforts to achieve a higher quality of life for all people. Equitable social development that recognizes empowering the poor, particularly women living in poverty, to utilize environmental resources sustainably is a necessary foundation for sustainable development. We also recognize that broad-based and sustained economic growth in the context of sustainable development is necessary to sustain social development and social justice. The success of the Platform for Action will also require adequate mobilization of resources at the national and international levels as well as new and additional resources to the developing countries from all available funding mechanisms, including multilateral, bilateral and private sources for the advancement of women; financial resources to strengthen the capacity of national, subregional, regional and international institutions; a commitment to equal rights, equal responsibilities and equal opportunities and to the equal participation of women and men in all national, regional and international bodies and policy-making processes; and the establishment or strengthening of mechanisms at all levels for accountability to the world’s women; 

37. Ensure also the success of the Platform for Action in countries with economies in transition, which will require continued international cooperation and assistance; 

38. We hereby adopt and commit ourselves as Governments to implement the following Platform for Action, ensuring that a gender perspective is reflected in all our policies and programmes. We urge the United Nations system, regional and international financial institutions, other relevant regional and international institutions and all women and men, as well as non-governmental organizations, with full respect for their autonomy, and all sectors of civil society, in cooperation with Governments, to fully commit themselves and contribute to the implementation of this Platform for Action.

Source: http://www.un.org/womenwatch/daw/beijing/pdf/Beijing%20full%20report%20E.pdf
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